Often it is
difficult to understand the stages of a relationship. While you glide through
the phases, transition sometimes becomes tough and often is something natural.
This is a subtle warning that often surfaces only when the relationship is on
the verge of ending. Not everything is declared officially especially when it
comes to relationships. Initially, the gap generates between the two. Knowingly
or unknowingly, people take this gap as a temporary misunderstanding. Some grip
on to hope, while some other, due to social status try to carry on mistaking it
for compromises. Instead, if you are able to identify the warning bells of your
ending relationship, it is wise to accept and walk out in peace.
Let’s look at the
four warning signs of an ending relationship:
IT’S
NO MORE ABOUT ‘WE’ IT’S JUST ABOUT ‘ME’ AND ‘YOU’:When you see that the WE
feeling is disappearing, it is an important sign that the relationship is
over. Generally, when we are in a relation, we tend to think about the
other person before we think about us. Feeling loved and cared are the key
essentials of a relationship. One partner should be caring for the other
and will feel good by sacrificing own liking and disliking by giving
preference to other. The time you see the change in thoughts or one’s
attitude has become rigid, he/she is thinking more about themselves than
their significant other.
THE
DATES ONCE SO IMPORTANT, NOW, HAS NO VALUE:We tend to remember each and
every little detail of our loved ones. Gifts, cards, wishes and surprises
what once were there, aren’t anymore. These details are no more important
and are viewed as something very normal or often forgotten. There are
other important events for your significant other to attend. You are no
more a priority. Before you become an option for your partner, take action
on the subtle warning.
NO
SACRIFICE, NO COMPROMISE, NO ADJUSTMENT:The time we are in love, we tend
to adjust with our beloved. We also try to be the way our beloved wants us
to be. We change, compromise, adjust and sacrifice, and try to be the one
that he or she expects. With time when you notice that, your feeling
towards your partner has changed, or you no more find interest in your
partner. Take it as a warning sign.
THE
PRESENCE IS NO MORE ENJOYABLE:The sign of a good relationship is
belongingness with each other. Each moment spent together becomes a memory
to cherish and treasure. You notice that you no more enjoy each other’s
company or either of you tend to avoid the other. If phone calls are
annoying and you don’t feel the need to answer the messages and even worst
is if you feel to ignore, this as sure an important sign. The blow is
always for the receiver. None can be busy for their loved ones. It
is only that their priorities change.
Without allowing ourselves
to be used choosing to walk out is the best option. Remember you are not a
loser rather your partner definitely is! Make up your mind and prepare for your
ending relationship. This helps you cope up with your break up.
An ex-HR professional, a homemaker by choice, a writer by chance, an astrologer by passion. To know more about me, please click About me on my Home Page. I also offer Astrology consultations.
