Women today have been making their foray in all the arenas of life.
Competing equally with their counterparts in meeting their deadlines and
targets, they have been walking up to their career ladder, achieving new
heights. But, not all have been experiencing this status. The world being the
male dominant place, a woman today has to fight and break through her own
beliefs and conditions to live the life she wished.
The 12 secrets below help you choose your path and be a go-getter woman.
1. Question yourself with the five Ws
Come out of your
preset beliefs. Contradict yourself. Question on what-ifs. Question yourself
about your life, are you living a happy life? Is this the life you wished to
live? The answers you come up with helps you find your path with a clear focus
on your future course of actions.
2. Breakthrough the confines
Emerge out of your
limited beliefs. Explore and identify the opportunities around. Find a place
for yourself. Create an identity of your own. Deal with your
day-to-day stress and overcome the barriers.
3. Set your goals
It’s always never
too late. However, taking actions and planning can push you away from your
future regret. Take some risks and forge ahead.
4. Stand up for yourself
It is you who has
to take charge of your life. Decide and think about what and how best you can
make of yourself. Consider the other alternatives. Brainstorm.
5. Prioritize your needs first
Place your needs
and yourself first. It’s time to be selfish as life is soon going to end if you
do not take control of your life. Think and decide on what makes you happy and
go for it.
6. Be emotionally independent
Your happiness
depends on you. Not on others. Your actions depend on your thoughts and your
thoughts depend on your goals. Set a goal. Rather than struggling to fit in
yourself around, make a place for yourself.
7. Reinvent yourself
Do not let the
surroundings and the prevailing situations mold your thoughts and you. Rather,
change the situation and bring in new things into your days.
8. Let go of the ill feelings and your past
The present is
based on your past and every passing day becomes a past of the present. Hence,
come out of your past and change your present. Let go of the ill feelings about
yourself and the others who has hurt you. This has a powerful capacity to
change your perspectives.
9. Accept yourself the way you are
It could be your
family or your changing priorities that have made you what you are today.
Understand the fact that it was your mindset that has made you what you are
today. Accepting yourself can broaden your thoughts. Don’t ever compare
yourself with other.
10. Love yourself
Pamper yourself.
Look good. Dress good. Eat healthy food. Exercise. Work out to maintain your
body and fitness. Feel good about yourself. Fall in love with yourself.
11. Take action
Dream high. Aim
high. Take a small step towards reaching your goal. Celebrate the first
success. Believe in yourself. Have confidence in yourself.
12. Be a rebel
Learn to say NO
politely. Do not let people take you for granted be it your kids or partner or
parents. Be with yourself and help yourself to be what you wished. Live your
life to the fullest by being yourself.
There you go! Would love to hear from you about your experiences and
achievements. Do share your comments below.
